Suyin Aerts
April 26, 2024

Beyond Niceness

The past months are so often characterized by bad news, so I believe that kindness is an opportunity that offers us some warmth in these moments of coldness.
But is kindness synonymous with being nice, or does it mean something deeper, more profound?

I have the feeling that kindness embodies a genuine concern for the well-being of others, a way to show others you understand their struggles and that you are willing to extend a helping hand, even when it's inconvenient or uncomfortable.

Being nice feels sometimes more superficial, those gestures or politeness that people sometimes have that are dictated by social norms and education, rather than that they really come from the heart.

To me kindness feels as if it is more driven by compassion and empathy. Coming from people that really embrace diversity and understand that we all see the world differently based upon our experiences and personal feelings.
I think it is about seeing beyond the surface and recognizing the humanity in each individual, regardless of their background or circumstances.

So kindness isn't just about actions—it's about intentions. It's about creating a culture of inclusivity where everyone feels valued, heard, and supported. It's about cultivating connections that go beyond superficial interactions.
I really believe that in a world that often seems divided and disconnected, kindness can serve as a unifying force, bridging the gaps that separate us and reminding us of our shared humanity.

So let us strive to be more than just nice—let us be kind. Let us cultivate a culture of kindness in our homes, workplaces, and communities, where compassion is valued as highly as competence, and empathy is prized above ego.

Do not wait for others to be kind, be kind yourself. I think we can create a ripple effect by spreading positivity and goodwill wherever it goes, inspiring others to pay it forward.

As the Dalai Lama once said, "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."

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