Suyin Aerts
April 14, 2023

A Question

After blogging for many years, most of my readers know that my tagline is "...because to get the right answers it is essential to ask the right questions". This is my concern in every interview, but it is also a challenge I give myself, to deliberately ask myself questions on many things in life. It is about daring to think further than the status quo. Because we make decisions every day, some decisions are small but we also face some very big decisions to make throughout our lives, that might lead to a great outcome. I am also convinced that we should be able to rethink our choices from time to time.

Some people say that everything happens for a reason, that nothing is a coincidence. Some even dare to say that things went the way they had to go. But then why bother with evaluating your choices in the first place? Do you really think you get that exclusive position because of something you did right or was it only because it was written in the stars?

Did he fall in love with you because you were such a good lover or simply because it was destined to happen? Do you have these beautiful and talented children because you’ve worked hard to be an amazing parent or is it simply the way it had to go? I believe we make choices ourselves on where we want to go with our lives. I am also convinced that how you decide, influences what kind of life you will have, and therefore you want to increase your decision-making skills. It is your choice to think positive or negative about any event in your life.

After all it really comes down to how much love you were able to give based upon the right questions you asked yourself and others.

Never fear a question and never answer a question you do not want to answer.

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